Sunday, November 30, 2008

House of Sickies

It's been a tough week in terms of health around here.

Tuesday morning, Elias woke up and said he just couldn't get out of bed. His lymph nodes were swollen but he didn't know what hurt. I let him just stay in bed. He slept all day long. The next day, he stayed at home, too, but he was healthier.

Zuri also started teething during this time. This must be the worse pain for him. His solution is to moan. It's so annoying. I feel sorry for the little thing but imagine trying to cuddle with him while watching TV and have a baby who is constantly moaning (or crying) in your arms. He was nursing and nursing and nursing.

Elias went back to school on Thursday but Zuri now had whatever it was that Elias had. He was just lethargic and didn't look very healthy. I guess it could have been his teeth. It's just the other two never had any pain when teething. Just one day, teeth would appear but Zuri is having a really tough time. I kept thinking Zuri might have thrown up, but I wasn't sure (because it also might have been the cat but he sometimes would have little puddles of milk-like stuff on his chest). I barely got any early preparations done for our Thanksgiving feast.

We decided to do Thanksgiving on Saturday since Brad had to work Thursday. I woke up early, put the turkey in the oven and about an hour later, I hear Brad say, "Elias just threw up."

Afterwards, Elias seemed just fine. I cooked for six hours with only a couple of breaks (to comfort a still-moaning Zuri). I made everything from stuffed celery to pumpkin pie. The works. I tried to talk Brad into taking Zuri to the doctor, but he claimed that it wasn't necessary because he didn't have a fever. (I looked it up and usually with a sore throat, if there's no fever, it's probably viral and there's nothing that can be done other than wait it out.) Zuri looks really thin because he's been sick for several days now (a couple was just teething pain) and hasn't eaten very much. After a while, he would try to nurse, but he couldn't swallow and he would say, "Bobbin!" but then would get mad when I would offer it to him.

When it was finally time to eat, I looked at Ezra and could immediately tell that his lymph nodes were swollen. He ate a few bites of "The Feast" and Elias ate zero. None, zilch. Ezra just wanted to cuddle all afternoon and evening.

During this time, I changed Zuri's diaper, realized we hadn't changed it all day and it still only a small amount of urine was in it. I freaked out because the stupidest thing would be to let your child get dehydrated. I got him some apple juice and he wouldn't drink it because it hurt to swallow so I did something that I've read you shouldn't do...I put it in a syringe and squirted it into his mouth. I would wait until he was breathing out so he wouldn't inhale it into his lungs, though. He would cry every time. He was so mad at me. But after a few times, he got to where he would open his mouth and let me drizzle it in. He was very thirsty. He drank a lot like that and after about half an hour, he was running around here in a MUCH better mood.

He loves kissing booboos (he'll hit his brothers with something and then lean over and kiss them--over and over again). He started moaning at one point and climbed up in my lap, pointed at where his tooth is coming in. I realized he wanted me to kiss it and I did...it was so cute, that did the trick for a little while. He climbed out of my chair and played some more. During the night, he began to be able to nurse well again.

So we then put the kids in bed (Zuri wouldn't go to sleep for a while even though you could tell he was soooo sleepy because his throat hurt), and I heard Ezra yelp something. He had now thrown up all over his bed. We put them in the other bed, gave throw-up covered boy a shower, washed sheets and bleached the floors. Zuri of course woke up again.

Ezra came in our bed in the middle of the night carrying the garbage can we sat by his bed. He kept startling himself awake and wanting drinks of apple juice. I realized, after a few times, that he was proving his earlier-stated theory: "If you need to throw up, drinking water will just fight it back down your throat."

He didn't throw up again, haha.

So, this week, we've battled teething pain, sore throats, weird lethargy and throwing up. Everyone is on the mend except for Ezra.

I look in the refrigerator and see all of the left-overs and just can't seem to want anything to eat. Not because I'm sick but because it was so anti-climatic to cook for so long and then no one wanted to eat. I think next year, we'll just go out to eat because it's not the same without all your family anyway.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Bits and pieces.

Well, stupid me missed a birthday party this weekend. I have no idea how I forgot about it. I felt just awful for the kids. We had RSVPed and everything.

Ezra has been getting in trouble for constantly getting into Brad's cologne. He doesn't just get a little drop. No, he gets a fistful and ends up smelling like a bad perfume factory. He smelled up the house one too many times and Brad threatened him with a spanking next time he did it.

We pulled out the all the Christmas decorations this weekend. Had a good time putting them up around the house.

Add to that, Zuri threw up this afternoon. I couldn't figure it out, he just randomly threw up and then smeared it all over the place but the unmistakable acidic smell of puke was all over his hands.

Later this evening, I noticed that Zuri smelled like our Christmas air freshener--to an extreme. Ezra had been reprimanded for spraying it all of the house and making me feel buzzed...and then it hit me. He hadn't sprayed the entire house, he had doused Zuri's chest and probably gotten it all in his mouth thus resulting in the throw up.

I'm so mad at Ezra.

Brad's in Shanghai. He had debated whether to come home tonight or not because he has to turn around and go back tomorrow morning. He decided to come on home tonight (with a little prodding from me). He just called: the van was hit by a big truck. There's not much damage but he'll be home very late.

Zuri knocked over the Christmas tree and picked up the ornaments and started throwing them saying, "BALL!" with each one. It's a tiny tree and it's up on a table. He must have pulled on the skirt. I guess I missed one of the breakable ones because I just turned around after hearing one smash against the ground. sigh. Our Christmas tree, which looked a bit better than the lopsided one from last year, looks shabby once again. Brad's the one with all of this Christmas spirit so maybe he'll feel like making it pretty again. I'm still trying to deal with Thanksgiving.

I love this weather, upper forties-lower fifties. The wind stings your face a little but it's not cold enough to penetrate your warm coat. When you go on a walk, your whole body stays toasty except for your cheeks and nose. It's just perfect winter weather. We have been having more blue skies here than at any other time I've been in China. All the pollution I've been talking about it just gone. My allergies have all but completely cleared up. It's been amazing. *I* think it's indicative of the economy: less production (and thus less pollution) in China.

Elias may have to quit Taekwondo. We're tired of him constantly hitting people. He's just playing but it's pretty annoying. Elias and Ezra are constantly fighting. I could stand the fighting if there wasn't a ton of tattling that went along with it. "He hit me in the nose!" "He pushed me down!" It's constant. I'm wondering what they think is supposed to happen when you fight?

Well, it's bedtime around here. I'm off to put the big boys in bed and get the rest of the air freshener off Zuri. I bet he's tired of smelling like a Christmas tree.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Spider Tag

Ezra's great idea for tag this evening: the kids climb on the wall made of rope at the playground. One person is the Spider and the other children are bugs who are invading the spider's web and the spider tries to catch them. Elias thought it sounded like an excellent idea and wanted to play but the other kids wanted to play standard tag.

Oh well. God can't hand out imaginations to everyone.

Conversation with Ezra. after school

"Mom, I drew a really good picture. Those things hanging down were his testicles."

"What? You drew a picture of his testicles?"

"Yeah, they were really long."

"Ezra, what are testicles?"

"Those things that come out of his body." (*motioning to chest*)

"OH! You mean TENTACLES."

"Yeah. He had long ones."

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Brad called it: crazy

There's this Chinese woman who lives in our complex who always wants to hold Zuri. She loves, loves, LOVES him. She is very pretty, dresses very chic, has lived in Japan and speaks some English.

Well, one day, I was talking to a friend and Brad was talking to another friend holding Zuri and the aforementioned woman came up. I'm not quite sure what went on and neither is Brad, but when she left, Brad said, "I think she's crazy."

A few days later, I went on a walk with Zuri and stopped by our compound's English bookstore. I had given Zuri a banana and a lollipop in his stroller and he was very sticky and covered in banana (even the peel was all in his lap because he insists upon having that piece, not the broken off piece). I wasn't really worrying about it but that crazy woman came in and some him in that state and oh, started saying the worst things about me in Chinese, "Your mother doesn't love you! Look how dirty she let's you get. She never cleans you does she? You want a Chinese mother, don't you?" She was cleaning him up with napkins and even though I tried to take the banana peel away from her, she insisted upon doing everything herself.

After a few minutes, it suddenly occurred to her that I understood what she was saying. She said in Chinese, "Do you understand me?" I laughed and told her that I did...really, someone saying bad things about you in another language just isn't that offensive. Apparently, she couldn't believe that I wouldn't be mad and she turned back around to Zuri and said, "She doesn't understand," like they have some kind of weird connection.

I came home and asked ayi about this woman and she said that none of the ayis like her. A few days later, she came up to ayi and asked to hold Zuri and ayi said, "Zuri doesn't want to!"

Really, I'm not sure she would steal the baby but she is awfully crazy.

Ayi also told me that a woman leaned over to talk to Zuri and she had on a really low blouse exposing her baboos. Zuri looked up and started saying, "Babbin! Babbin!" Ayi knows that babbin means baboos. The woman asked ayi what he had said and ayi said, "He said the English word for ball."

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Dinosaur Land Pictures

This must be the fattest panda I've ever seen:

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Ezra has a girlfriend, although HE says she has another boyfriend:

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There were dinosaurs everywhere:

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This doll was so weird-looking, I just had to get a picture:

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They had real-sized dinosaurs all over the place:

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There were over fifty different skeletons of dinosaur fossils. This is my personal favorite, it was his idea to pretend to run away:

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Very proud of his artwork:

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Not his girlfriend my foot!

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Ezra loves this picture. He thinks he is so funny:

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All day long, Ezra was really working on figuring out how to smile:

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Aaaaaaah:

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These could move their heads around and spit water. Ezra was amazed:

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Someone has a crush:

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Ezra had such a good time yesterday! I'm glad he got a chance to experience it. There were lots of rides but mostly only ones for older children. Maybe we'll take the other two back one weekend.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

This, that and t'other.

Ezra cried yesterday because I didn't cook rice with dinner. He's always loved rice but it's been so long since we've had mashed potatoes, I don't even think he knows what they are.

Part of me is sad and part of me is laughing.

For the past two weeks, Elias and I have been studying George Washington and Barack Obama. He's going to return to America and have no clue about things that normal Kindergartners learn about. At his age, though, he can now write a summary of the "I cannot tell a lie, I cut down your cherry tree" story, which is exactly what he did.

(And it was so good, who knew that "George liked to cut just about everything in his way?")

Next week, we'll tackle Thanksgiving. He knows all about Thanksgiving's "The Feast" (as he calls it) but I'm not sure he would know what a Pilgrim was even if one gave him an ear of corn! I'm trying to decide if we'll stop short of dressing up as Pilgrims and Indians...but maybe not. :)

Today, Ezra and I went to "Kong Long Yuan" or "Dinosaur Land" with his school in Changzhou. I'll post pictures of it tomorrow.

Is it so wrong of me that I told the teacher to go "round up" the other ADULTS because they were 20 minutes late? I had to get back to the Zoobo and I hate waiting when it's time to go home. The other English speaking woman and I were the only two people back on time and about ten minutes later, there were two other families on the bus. That's all. Before I knew what I was doing, I turned around and yelled at the teacher, "Did you tell ALL the people to be back here at 2:50?" The words were out of my mouth before I realized that I was speaking Chinese and the other two families could understand me how rude I was being.

I like that I can oftentimes live under the cover of English.

I know in China, people don't care so much if they're late and usually I can just accept it but I guess I just temporarily lost sight of that. Oh well.

In other news, Zuri's new favorite word is no. But not just, "No." He says it, "No, no, no!" when something isn't going his way. After Ayi realized that he could understand it, she started using it all the time so when Zuri says it, he doesn't pronounce it properly. It sounds more like, "Na-oh." Cracks me up every time...that is, until he comes in carrying a knife (butter) and when I try to take it away, he says, "Na-oh, na-oh!" and holds it tightly behind his back.

But I can see my efforts to keep him safe have been fruitless. He just came in here carrying three butter knives and a slotted serving spoon. How does he even know where they are?

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Zuri (and Ezra) love 'em some Cripple Creek

It's funny to watch them dance.


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(Please excuse the stretch pants violation!)

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Pumpkin cookies

Ezra KEEPS asking me if he can make candy but he doesn't want any help in doing it. He sneaked in the kitchen one day and poured masala powder and some Thai spicy sauce in a cup and tried to drink it. So I had to make the rule that he isn't allowed to do it without help...to a certain extent.

So I set the open can of pumpkin, the sugar, cinnamon, all spice, nutmeg and cloves on the counter and told him he could put those in. I thought he would put in some, taste it and decide to put some more in (or not) like we do when we make cookies together. I was letting him experiment. I left the room.

I learned a lesson. He has helped me cook cookies many times before and he knows the other ingredients that go in to them. So even though I had set out the other ingredients in another area, he still knew what to do with them. I came back only five minutes later to a counter covered in eggs and cookies with the most baking soda in them that I have ever tasted.

We went ahead and baked them anyway and I told him they were the best pumpkin cookies I'd ever tasted. Of course, cover something in enough icing and you can say that in all honesty about any food!

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Two videos:

The first one is Zuri being silly. There's nothing profound on it, just Zuri getting noses, talking a little, losing his temper due to Ezra's interference and lastly, he plays the piano a bit.



This is Elias doing taekwondo, er, I mean, playing soccer:


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